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Your Anger is Killing Your Chances

Lots of our clients “come in” angry.  Getting laid off after years of service is not fun.  Most of our clients were looking forward to staying with the company until they wished to leave.  Most of them feel they have a “right: to be angry.  Well, they do have a right to be angry in the same way as...

Why am I Still Unemployed?

I often hear this question.  Realistically, I see two kinds of people.  Those who we wonder why they would ever remain unemployed and those we know why they’re unemployed.  Here are some of the top reasons that you might be remaining unemployed. First, let’s look at some of the reasons that people...

It’s About Asking for It, People!

This post is written by Nicole Heckers, MA, BCPC, Vice President & Executive Career Coach at Heckers Development Group, LTD. The fear of social blundering (the fear of being perceived as too aggressive) has stopped many would be profitable relationships and deals from ever taking place. Our reluctance...

Night Owls vs. Early Birds – Wealthy and Wise?

“Early to bed and early to rise/makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.“  – Attributed to Ben Franklin, but really unknown. It turns out that, not only is this old bromide not accurate, it may be just the opposite. In two recent studies (one of which is abstracted on the net, the other one...

Why You Should Not Conduct a National Search

Many executives, when faced with unemployment, tend to panic.  Most executives have never had to look for a job, as the jobs have come to them.  This economy has changed all that. In their panic and fear, many executives start to conduct a “national search.”  While this may sometimes yield a position,...

10 Signs You Need Help With Your Job Search

Do you really need help finding an Executive job?  Why would anyone need a “coach” for this? I hear this question all of the time.  The answer, unfortunately, is usually “yes.”  Here are some questions to help you decide. 1).  You’ve been unemployed more than a month and you have had less than...

I Have Irons in the Fire and Other Fantasies

When it is time for people to decide whether or not to retain me as their Transition Coach, I get bedtime stories. The biggest lie that people tell me and themselves is “I’ve got irons in the fire.” Here is some reality for all of the executive dreamers out there who believe fantasies instead of...

Communicate for Heaven’s Sake!

Someone I know has an inability to communicate information in response to questions. For example, I said “How much does that cost a month?” The answer was “Well, I bought it for a year.” “How much,” I asked again, “does it cost a month?” “Well,” was the answer, “maybe I bought it for...

Priorities

First, our book and DVD series have been delayed by someone who lied to us and didn’t get his priorities straight. We look for the book and DVD series to actually be deliverable by November 1st at the latest. We’re sorry that those of you who have been asking about it are delayed. It is about...

This is Denver. Adapt.

Due to the fact that Denver is doing well, when so many other places are “tanking,” we have had an influx of out-of-towners. Some of these out-of-towners have graciously retained me as their transition coach. I am seeing patterns, often from Californians or East Coasters, that are, however, costing them...

Stop Whining and Get to Work!

While most of my clients are great, there are some that are whiney as all get out. They are not likely to find executive level employment in a hurry….if ever. Executives can be the whiniest and least proactive people on the face of the earth. They expect everything to be done for them as soon as they ask...

The Web Can Be Friend or Foe

Every new technology can be a “mixed blessing.” My cell phone makes me more accessible — and wakes me up early in the morning with some marketing call or wrong number. My computer gave me repetitive stress syndrome. My copier ate an important document. And so on. But the most dangerous technology...